Banyak perkara terjadi bukan dengan kehendak kita tapi kehendak Allah semata. Contohnya macam Ummi ngan Walid pada awalnya merancang untuk pindah ke Bangi sewaktu cuti raya cina 2010 yang lepas, End up Walid dapat tahu dia kene pergi kursus DPA bulan 3. Takkan nak tinggalkan Ummi yang tunggu nak meletop bulan 3 jugak tu. So tak jadilah kitorang pindah rumah baru masa tu. Lepas Walid habis DPA baru ada kesempatan.
Hikmah di sebaliknya- Ummi boleh berpantang happily kt kampung-(though waktu tu bersalin takde Walid disisi), Walid leh focus utk DPA n kitorang sama2 leh save some money utk house renovation. Sekarang dah jadi home sweet home dah.
Then come another wave~Tika Ummi dah merancang (jump ship), tika Walid dah ada perancangan sendiri (completekan Master kt UM). So sudden? Nama Walid naik utk those who might be trasfer out utk lead another branch dekat Bumi Kenyalang.
Options:
Option1:
If Walid kene transfer out-atas kehendak perkhidmatan.
If Ummi also 'jump ship'.
| Pro (Walid,Ummi) | Cons |
|---|---|
| Bettter Opportunity,Better moo laah | Security concerns |
| Travelling when its needed | anak2 tinggal kesepian |
| Budak2 tu tak nampak Ummi ngan Walid | |
| Keluarga akan berpecah | |
| On-Off ada di rumah | |
| Air ticket is not cheap kalau ulang kali balik | |
| Ummi bonded 2 years | |
| Walid required to serve at least 2 years | |
| Imagine 2 years of hard long distance relationship |
Option2:
If Ummi stay n Walid 'saya yang menurut perintah'
| Pro (Walid,Ummi) | Cons |
|---|---|
| Ummi no need to travel outside Msia | Security concerns |
| Travelling when its needed | anak2 -At least Ummi is there |
| On-Off ada di rumah | |
| Air ticket is not cheap kalau ulang kali balik | |
| There will be a counter offer | |
| Walid required to serve at least 2 years | |
| Imagine 2 years of hard long distance relationship |
Yeah, after long night of isthikarah, We finally come to an agreement. Changes to this decision also will trigger other things to change,
such as:
Pengasuh Muadz last minute tak jadi nak membantu Ummi-Husband does not agree.
Kene lah call mak dari kampung tu. datang..temporary.kalau tak macam mana yer..
